Are LLMs Empathetic to All? Investigating the Influence of Multi-Demographic Personas on a Model’s Empathy

Ananya Malik, Nazanin Sabri, Melissa M. Karnaze, Mai ElSherief


Abstract
Large Language Models’ (LLMs) ability to converse naturally is empowered by their ability to empathetically understand and respond to their users. However, emotional experiences are shaped by demographic and cultural contexts. This raises an important question: Can LLMs demonstrate equitable empathy across diverse user groups? We propose a framework to investigate how LLMs’ cognitive and affective empathy vary across user personas defined by intersecting demographic attributes. Our study introduces a novel intersectional analysis spanning 315 unique personas, constructed from combinations of age, culture, and gender, across four LLMs. Results show that attributes profoundly shape a model’s empathetic responses. Interestingly, we see that adding multiple attributes at once can attenuate and reverse expected empathy patterns. We show that they broadly reflect real-world empathetic trends, with notable misalignments for certain groups, such as those from Confucian culture. We complement our quantitative findings with qualitative insights to uncover model behaviour patterns across different demographic groups. Our findings highlight the importance of designing empathy-aware LLMs that account for demographic diversity to promote more inclusive and equitable model behaviour.
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2025.findings-emnlp.1358
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Findings of the Association for Computational Linguistics: EMNLP 2025
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November
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2025
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Suzhou, China
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Christos Christodoulopoulos, Tanmoy Chakraborty, Carolyn Rose, Violet Peng
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Ananya Malik, Nazanin Sabri, Melissa M. Karnaze, and Mai ElSherief. 2025. Are LLMs Empathetic to All? Investigating the Influence of Multi-Demographic Personas on a Model’s Empathy. In Findings of the Association for Computational Linguistics: EMNLP 2025, pages 24938–24959, Suzhou, China. Association for Computational Linguistics.
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