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title = "Controllable Memory Usage: Balancing Anchoring and Innovation in Long-Term Human{--}Agent Interaction",
author = "Huang, Zisu and
Tian, Muzhao and
Wang, Xiaohua and
Xu, Jingwen and
Guo, Zhengkang and
Qian, Qi and
Song, Kaitao and
Yuan, Jiakang and
Lv, Changze and
Zheng, Xiaoqing",
editor = "Liakata, Maria and
Moreira, Viviane P. and
Zhang, Jiajun and
Jurgens, David",
booktitle = "Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the {A}ssociation for {C}omputational {L}inguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)",
month = jul,
year = "2026",
address = "San Diego, California, United States",
publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics",
url = "https://aclanthology.org/2026.acl-long.670/",
pages = "14699--14719",
ISBN = "979-8-89176-390-6",
abstract = "As LLM-based agents are increasingly used in long-term interactions, cumulative memory is critical for enabling personalization and maintaining stylistic consistency. However, most existing systems adopt an ``all-or-nothing'' approach to memory usage: incorporating all relevant past information can lead to Memory Anchoring, where the agent is trapped by past interactions, while excluding memory entirely results in under-utilization and the loss of important interaction history. We show that an agent{'}s reliance on memory can be modeled as an explicit and user-controllable dimension. We first introduce a behavioral metric of memory dependence to quantify the influence of past interactions on current outputs. We then propose Steerable Memory Agent, SteeM, a framework that allows users to dynamically regulate memory reliance, ranging from a fresh-start mode that promotes innovation to a high-fidelity mode that closely follows interaction history. Experiments across different scenarios demonstrate that our approach consistently outperforms conventional prompting and rigid memory masking strategies, yielding a more nuanced and effective control for personalized human-agent collaboration."
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%T Controllable Memory Usage: Balancing Anchoring and Innovation in Long-Term Human–Agent Interaction
%A Huang, Zisu
%A Tian, Muzhao
%A Wang, Xiaohua
%A Xu, Jingwen
%A Guo, Zhengkang
%A Qian, Qi
%A Song, Kaitao
%A Yuan, Jiakang
%A Lv, Changze
%A Zheng, Xiaoqing
%Y Liakata, Maria
%Y Moreira, Viviane P.
%Y Zhang, Jiajun
%Y Jurgens, David
%S Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the Association for Computational Linguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)
%D 2026
%8 July
%I Association for Computational Linguistics
%C San Diego, California, United States
%@ 979-8-89176-390-6
%F huang-etal-2026-controllable
%X As LLM-based agents are increasingly used in long-term interactions, cumulative memory is critical for enabling personalization and maintaining stylistic consistency. However, most existing systems adopt an “all-or-nothing” approach to memory usage: incorporating all relevant past information can lead to Memory Anchoring, where the agent is trapped by past interactions, while excluding memory entirely results in under-utilization and the loss of important interaction history. We show that an agent’s reliance on memory can be modeled as an explicit and user-controllable dimension. We first introduce a behavioral metric of memory dependence to quantify the influence of past interactions on current outputs. We then propose Steerable Memory Agent, SteeM, a framework that allows users to dynamically regulate memory reliance, ranging from a fresh-start mode that promotes innovation to a high-fidelity mode that closely follows interaction history. Experiments across different scenarios demonstrate that our approach consistently outperforms conventional prompting and rigid memory masking strategies, yielding a more nuanced and effective control for personalized human-agent collaboration.
%U https://aclanthology.org/2026.acl-long.670/
%P 14699-14719
Markdown (Informal)
[Controllable Memory Usage: Balancing Anchoring and Innovation in Long-Term Human–Agent Interaction](https://aclanthology.org/2026.acl-long.670/) (Huang et al., ACL 2026)
ACL
- Zisu Huang, Muzhao Tian, Xiaohua Wang, Jingwen Xu, Zhengkang Guo, Qi Qian, Kaitao Song, Jiakang Yuan, Changze Lv, and Xiaoqing Zheng. 2026. Controllable Memory Usage: Balancing Anchoring and Innovation in Long-Term Human–Agent Interaction. In Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the Association for Computational Linguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers), pages 14699–14719, San Diego, California, United States. Association for Computational Linguistics.