@inproceedings{chen-etal-2026-adamem, title = "{A}da{M}em: Learning What to Remember with Adaptive Memory Policies for Personalized Agents", author = "Chen, Xingyu and Wang, Rui and Tu, Zhaopeng and Bo, Liefeng", editor = "Atanasova, Pepa and Haffari, Gholamreza and Wang, Minghan", booktitle = "Proceedings of the 2026 Conference on Empirical Methods in Natural Language Processing: Industry Track", month = oct, year = "2026", address = "Budapest, Hungary", publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics", url = "https://aclanthology.org/2026.emnlp-industry.189/", pages = "3186--3196", ISBN = "979-8-89176-460-6" }