Distance Is Not Enough: Forget-Retain Alignment Gap Predicts LLM Relearning Robustness

Yi Chen, Hanna Hsieh, Shuhong Liu, Chuanbo Hua, Zihan Ma, Kun Wang, Joo-Young Kim


Abstract
Machine unlearning aims to make a model forget specific data, yet unlearned LLMs often fail to stay unlearned: brief fine-tuning can revive removed knowledge. Existing robustness predictors rely on global weight-space displacement, but distance alone can be misleading when random or destructive updates collapse performance. We argue that relearning robustness depends on update structure: robust unlearning should affect forget-critical weights while sparing retain-critical ones. We introduce the Forget-Retain Alignment Gap (FRAG), a training-free predictor that scores an update’s forget-retain alignment without running a relearning attack, and separates selective from dense updates more reliably than global distance. Building on the forget-critical, retain-sparing principle, Forget-Retain Pruning (FRP) improves relearning robustness. Our results suggest that weight selectivity better explains robustness than distance alone. Our code is available at https://github.com/Yi1-Chen/FRAG.
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2026.emnlp-main.1956
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Proceedings of the 2026 Conference on Empirical Methods in Natural Language Processing
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October
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2026
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Budapest, Hungary
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Hung-Yi Lee, Sunipa Dev, Junyi Jessy Li, Desmond Elliott
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EMNLP
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SIGDAT
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Association for Computational Linguistics
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44542–44555
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https://aclanthology.org/2026.emnlp-main.1956/
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10.18653/2026.emnlp-main.1956
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Yi Chen, Hanna Hsieh, Shuhong Liu, Chuanbo Hua, Zihan Ma, Kun Wang, and Joo-Young Kim. 2026. Distance Is Not Enough: Forget-Retain Alignment Gap Predicts LLM Relearning Robustness. In Proceedings of the 2026 Conference on Empirical Methods in Natural Language Processing, pages 44542–44555, Budapest, Hungary. Association for Computational Linguistics.
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