Naturalistic Measure of Social Norms Alignment

Yevhen Kostiuk, Kenneth Enevoldsen, Peter Bjerregaard Vahlstrup, Márton Kardos, Kristoffer Nielbo


Abstract
Social norms reflect shared expectations on acceptable behavior. Measuring social norms alignment remains challenging, with existing approaches typically relying on artificial closedform evaluations such as multiple-choice questionnaires or measuring agreement with predefined statements. In the context of this work, social norms alignment refers to measuring an agreement between solutions with respect to the social problem or dilemma. We propose a framework for measuring social norm alignment in naturalistic, free-form settings through solution matching. The framework enables us to measure alignment between any two dilemma responses e.g., LLMs to a human, LLMs to LLMs, or human to human. We introduce two metrics: stated and explicit agreement accuracy, and construct a dataset of 3k nontrivial social dilemmas in Danish. All dilemmas are assigned reference solutions derived from three panelists, who serve as culturally grounded judges. We evaluate the agreement of several LLMs and human responses in an interaction setup that resembles natural user–model conversations. Our results show that the proposed metrics produce consistent model rankings and reveal variation in agreement across different types of dilemmas, with higher agreement observed for topics such as neighbor conflicts and shared living situations. Overall, our work introduces a dataset and evaluation framework for studying culturally grounded social reasoning in naturalistic open-ended conversations.
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2026.oracle-main.34
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The Proceedings of the Workshop on Open Reasoning Across Cultures Languages (ORACLE)
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October
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2026
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Budapest, Hungary
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Leonardo Ranaldi, Giulia Pucci, Federico Ranaldi, Marco Valentino, Alexandra Birch, Fabio Massimo Zanzotto
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Yevhen Kostiuk, Kenneth Enevoldsen, Peter Bjerregaard Vahlstrup, Márton Kardos, and Kristoffer Nielbo. 2026. Naturalistic Measure of Social Norms Alignment. In The Proceedings of the Workshop on Open Reasoning Across Cultures Languages (ORACLE), pages 484–514, Budapest, Hungary. Association for Computational Linguistics.
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