While large audio language models (LALMs) have driven significant progress in multimodal conversational systems, current benchmarks suffer from critical limitations: they are largely English-centric, use synthetic speech, and fail to provide comprehensive, discriminative evaluation across key dimensions. To fill this gap, we present Voice Chat Bot Bench (VCB Bench), a novel, high-quality Chinese benchmark built exclusively on real human speech. VCB Bench assesses LALMs across three complementary axes: instruction following (including speech-level control beyond text commands), knowledge understanding (including general knowledge, reasoning, and daily dialogue), and robustness (evaluating stability under variations in content, environment, and speaker characteristics). Experiments conducted on representative LALMs reveal notable performance disparities and offer tangible insights for future improvements. VCB Bench serves as a reproducible and fine-grained framework, providing standardized evaluation and practical guidance for the development of Chinese voice conversational models.

Speech carries more information than just words: a child’s voice, a fearful tone, or a noisy background should all lead a sufficiently competent spoken-dialogue assistant to different replies. Current Speech Language Models (SLMs) can recognize such paralinguistic cues but often ignore them in open-ended dialogue. We observe that a simple paralinguistic instruction scaffold at the inference stage narrows this perception-behavior gap, suggesting that the relevant cues are already latent in the model. Such scaffolds, however, remain brittle under multi-turn context and competing instructions. Therefore, we propose ParaBridge, an on-policy self-distillation method that turns a brittle inference-time scaffold into stable model behavior. During training, the scaffold serves only as a temporary privileged view; the scaffold-free model rolls out its own response, while the scaffolded view supplies dense, full-vocabulary next-token targets along its trajectory. This supervision teaches when non-lexical cues should affect the reply without the need for curated dialogues, human labels, or external reward models. On Qwen3-Omni-thinking, ParaBridge raises scaffold-free VoxSafeBench SAR from 14.6% to 40.3% and improves EchoMind average rating from 3.27 to 3.92. It also preserves general ability, with MMAU-Pro, VoiceBench, and GPQA all within 0.4 points of the original model. Beyond the training distribution, ParaBridge generalizes to unseen paralinguistic cues, transfers from safety-oriented training to empathy-oriented dialogue, and works on a different SLM backbone. Code and checkpoints are available at https://github.com/AmphionTeam/ParaBridge.