Existing summarizers for memory systems are typically optimized for human-facing criteria such as faithfulness, which misaligns with their true objective: preserving the evidence needed to support future queries. We show that conditioning summarization on query-answer pairs substantially improves answer quality, and that this utility-aware behavior is transferable across queries. Motivated by these findings, we propose MemSuit, a self-distillation framework in which a teacher summarizer, conditioned on observed query-answer pairs, produces utility-aware memory entries that a student learns to reproduce from the raw conversation alone. To prevent collateral erasure where conditioning on a single query-answer pair discards evidence relevant to other plausible queries, the teacher decomposes each block into multiple self-contained entries that preserve distinct query-relevant facets as independently retrievable units. To align the retriever with the compact, fact-dense style of teacher entries, we further fine-tune the embedding model with a contrastive objective supervised by teacher entries. Across a diverse suite of conversational query types, MemSuit consistently outperforms state-of-the-art baselines, confirming the value of grounding memory in downstream utility.

Large Language Models (LLMs) have demonstrated remarkable capabilities across various domains, including their emerging role in mitigating threats to human life, infrastructure, and the environment during natural disasters. Despite increasing research on disaster-focused LLMs, there remains a lack of systematic reviews and in-depth analyses of their applications in natural disaster management. To address this gap, this paper presents a comprehensive survey of LLMs in disaster response, introducing a taxonomy that categorizes existing works based on disaster phases and application scenarios. By compiling public datasets and identifying key challenges and opportunities, this study aims to provide valuable insights for the research community and practitioners in developing advanced LLM-driven solutions to enhance resilience against natural disasters.