Existing multimodal emotion and intent recognition tasks predominantly focus on classification, overlooking the underlying rationale and intrinsic connections between these states. Bridging this gap, we propose **Joint Multimodal Emotion-Intent Explanation and Classification, JX4MEI**, a novel task requiring the model to jointly predict emotion and intent, while generating natural language explanations for why they co-occur. To support this, we present **XMEI-dataset**, a large-scale benchmark of 15,461 multimodal samples spanning 7 emotion and 9 intent categories across text, audio, and visual modalities. Unlike prior works, our dataset provides fine-grained rationales for emotion, intent, and their causal interplay, curated via a rigorous pipeline involving Chain-of-Thought generation and strict human refinement to eliminate model artifacts. Furthermore, we propose **XMEI-Qwen**, a model equipped with a novel **Language-Query Former (LQ-Former)**. By leveraging modality-specific captions as semantic queries, LQ-Former injects explicit semantic guidance into feature alignment, significantly enhancing reasoning capabilities. Empirical experiments demonstrate that XMEI-Qwen sets a new state-of-the-art on the JX4MEI task, outperforming competitive baselines in both prediction and explanation generation. Code: https://github.com/OrangeYeah1027/JX4MEI.

Efficiently aligning visual features with Large Language Models (LLMs) remains a critical bottleneck in Multimodal LLMs. Existing query-based alignment modules (e.g., Q-Former) rely on randomly initialized queries, resulting in an inefficient cold start exploration process. Furthermore, they enforce uniform cross-attention across all layers, leading to computational redundancy. Our empirical analysis reveals that query tokens initialized with language priors can rapidly capture global semantics, leading to early representation convergence after only a few layers. In this paper, we propose **Cat-MoD**, a **Ca**ption **t**oken Guided Asymmetric **M**ixture-**o**f-**D**epths framework. It incorporates a **Hybrid Query Construction** module where Guide Tokens initialized from coarse-grained linguistic priors rapidly anchor global semantic context, and randomly initialized Explorer Tokens remain active to capture fine-grained visual details. Exploiting this early convergence, we introduce an **Asymmetric Mixture-of-Depths** mechanism, where a similarity-aware router dynamically prunes redundant tokens from expensive cross-attention layers while preserving their context in self-attention. Experiments on multiple benchmarks demonstrate that Cat-MoD matches or surpasses baseline performance, while substantially reducing alignment FLOPs by approximately 37% during both training and inference, offering a highly efficient solution for multimodal alignment. Code: https://github.com/JasonOrange0726/Cat-MoD.